Burnout Therapy for Women in Toronto and Across Ontario
I'm Jennifer Bartok, a Registered Social Worker and burnout therapist in Toronto. I offer burnout counselling by secure video to women anywhere in Ontario who feel exhausted from carrying responsibility at work, at home or both.
You’re running on empty, but still pushing through.
You’ve been buried by responsibility for so long that there’s not much left to give. Now even small things feel exhausting. You may find yourself crying more easily, feeling emotionally numb, or wondering why everything suddenly feels so hard.
You can’t seem to quiet your mind, even when nothing urgent is happening. The simplest tasks take more out of you than they used to, but no matter how much you do, it still feels like you’re falling behind.
And increasingly, you may find yourself wondering:
Why is it always me?
You don’t have to keep carrying everything to be okay.
You've tried pushing through, thinking your way out of it, and telling yourself you'll slow down when things settle. But somehow, there's always one more thing.
Signs of burnout you might recognize
Feel exhausted from having a million things to do all the time, with no real end in sight.
Keep pushing through even when you're exhausted, because slowing down feels like everything might fall apart.
Wake up already thinking about what needs to get done, without ever feeling fully rested.
Want someone else to take care of things for once, but have a hard time trusting that they actually will.
Know something has to change, but don't have the energy to figure out what, let alone make it happen.
And somewhere underneath all the pushing through, a quieter question keeps surfacing:
What if I let something drop?
When you've spent so long being the one who keeps everything going, it can be hard to know what you can put down without feeling like you're letting someone down.
Somewhere in all that responsibility, it's easy to lose touch with what you need, want, or have room for.
High-functioning burnout
High-functioning burnout happens when you keep performing well while feeling depleted underneath. You still show up for work, family and friends, so the exhaustion stays hidden, sometimes even from you. It often appears as irritability, trouble relaxing at night, getting sick more often, or feeling flat about things you used to enjoy. Women who have always been the dependable one are especially likely to miss the signs, because pushing through has worked for them for years.
Types of burnout I work with
Workplace burnout: long hours, high standards and a job that keeps asking for more, common in healthcare, education, law and corporate roles.
Caregiver burnout: looking after aging parents, a partner with health needs, or children who need extra support.
Parental burnout: the exhaustion of running a household and carrying the mental load of family life.
Burnout and anxiety together: when exhaustion and constant worry show up at the same time and each makes the other harder.
Burnout counselling in Toronto and across Ontario
Sessions take place by secure video, so you can attend burnout counselling from home or a private office without adding a commute to an already full week. I work with women in Toronto and the GTA as well as Ottawa, Hamilton, Barrie and communities across Ontario.
Starting burnout therapy
Start with a free 15-minute video consultation, and bring as much or as little as you want to share. Individual sessions are 60 minutes and cost $175. As a Registered Social Worker, I provide receipts that many extended health plans reimburse.
How I can help
How burnout therapy works
Burnout therapy helps you understand what’s keeping you stuck in survival mode. Burnout therapy isn't about pushing through or finding better ways to get everything done. Using attachment-focused Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), we'll slow things down and understand the pressure, expectations, and patterns that have kept you overextended for so long.
We might notice:
The pressure you feel to keep going
The expectations you're trying to meet
The patterns that make it difficult to put something down, ask for help, or make room for yourself
The goal isn't to help you carry everything better. It's to understand why you've had to carry so much in the first place, so you can begin making room for yourself too.
Burnout doesn’t always look like exhaustion.
It can also leave you feeling constantly on edge, overthinking, emotionally overwhelmed, or unable to truly relax.
Burnout isn't always the result of doing too much. Sometimes it's the result of spending years believing you can't put yourself down on the list.
If that feels familiar, you may also recognize yourself in anxiety.
Burnout can also affect how present and connected you feel in your relationships.
See FAQs for current fees, insurance coverage and getting started.
Burnout therapy Can help witH
Knowing what you think, feel, and want.
So your own voice doesn't keep getting lost underneath everything that needs your attention.
Feeling like you can slow down without everything falling apart.
Beginning to trust that it doesn’t all depend on you.
Having more breathing room instead of constantly pushing through.
So you're not always bracing or trying to hold everything together on your own.
I want you to know:
You don’t have to keep running on fumes.
You’ve been pushing through for a long time. Therapy can be a place to understand what has kept you going this way and begin making more room for yourself.
faqs
Burnout therapy FAQs
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Burnout can feel like more than being tired. You may feel physically or emotionally depleted, overwhelmed by things you used to manage, increasingly irritable or numb, or like you're simply going through the motions. You may still be getting everything done, but it takes more out of you than it used to and you never seem to feel fully caught up or restored.
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Yes. Burnout doesn't always mean you can't function. You may still be working, caring for others, meeting deadlines, and handling responsibilities while feeling completely depleted underneath. In fact, being able to keep pushing through can make burnout harder to recognize until the ways you've always managed things stop working as well as they used to.
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When you've spent a long time staying ready, responsible, and focused on what needs to happen next, slowing down may not automatically feel restful. Your mind may keep running through unfinished tasks, anticipating problems, or reminding you of what you should be doing. We can get curious about what makes putting that responsibility down feel so difficult.
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When you've been carrying too much for too long, even ordinary demands can begin to feel overwhelming. Things that once felt manageable may take more energy, patience, or concentration than you have available. That doesn't necessarily mean you've suddenly become less capable. It may be a sign that you've been operating without enough room to recover for a long time.
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Yes. Burnout can show up as exhaustion, but it can also leave you feeling anxious, impatient, easily overwhelmed, emotionally reactive, or disconnected from what you feel. Some women notice they cry more easily, while others feel like they can't feel much of anything at all.
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You don't need to know what needs to change before coming to therapy. In fact, figuring that out can be part of the work. We can start with what's feeling hardest right now and gradually make sense of what's been taking so much out of you, without turning therapy into another thing you have to get right.
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Therapy isn't about helping you become more efficient at carrying everything. We'll look at the pressure, expectations, and patterns that have kept you pushing through, including what can make it difficult to slow down, ask for support, or make room for yourself. From there, we can work toward a way of living that feels more sustainable and includes you in it, too.
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Yes. I offer online burnout therapy for women in Toronto and across Ontario through secure video sessions. You can attend from a private space that feels comfortable and works for you.
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You don't need to arrive with lots of energy, know exactly what you want to work on, or have the right words. You can come as you are. We can start wherever you are and move at a pace that feels manageable.
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The World Health Organization describes burnout as an occupational phenomenon caused by long-term workplace stress, rather than a medical condition. Depression is a diagnosable condition that affects mood across every part of life. The two share symptoms such as exhaustion and low motivation and can happen together. If you are unsure which you are experiencing, we can talk it through, and I may suggest a visit to your family doctor as well.
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Recovery depends on how long you have been depleted and what is still asking for your energy. Some women notice changes within a few months of regular sessions, and longer patterns take more time. We will check in regularly about how therapy is going.
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Some people take a leave and many keep working while they recover. We can look at what is realistic for you, and if a leave makes sense, your family doctor can help with the medical side.
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Individual sessions are $175 for 60 minutes. Most extended health plans in Ontario cover sessions with a Registered Social Worker, and I provide a receipt after each session.
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